Hi guys, TGIF😊. Grab a seat and let’s talk about something you’ll really relate to. I’m being a bit personal today so you get the message.
So I’ve been relating with this friend of mine for some time now. Personally, I believe friendship is supposed to be solid before getting into a relationship. Here’s the thing though, most of my friends just know me on A VERY SERIOUS SURFACE level. I keep it that way because I feel not everyone is ready to handle my different layers and scars.
The highlight of this gist is that; Personally, I feel in this generation, everybody just wants the good stuff. “Yo, Lois… you’re energy is crazy, you rock girl, life of the party”. I know all these things trust me.
What I don’t know is if I’m willing to risk letting people into some parts of my life where they see through my energy on some days and tell me point blank “I know you posted that cause you were conflicted, I know you posted that cause you were just trying to cheer yourself up…”
Truth is, majority of people just love the good stuff and when there’s a pause, it’s like… yoooo sis, yooo bro, this isn’t the content we signed up for. Uhmmmmm you’re becoming boring, is this all you want to talk about, is this the only thing happening,it’s never that deep you know, brush it off. They seem to love you until they stop loving you.
So yeah, do you vibe with people just for appearances or you want to be involved in uncovering the layers that make those appearances make sense?