Hi guys, so this post was coined from one of the posts on “dairy of a naija girl” as seen on Instagram. You can read it just below👇🏽
Now let’s dissect this open marriage thing. As Ife said from DANG, question your values and if you’re comfortable with that reality oh well, but if you’re not comfortable you should have a rethink.
Please, this one hit me sha cause what…”Permission to cheat”. Like we’re really doing this? “What if you find someone you’re attracted to?”. You’re definitely going to find someone you’re attracted to other than your partner .
This generation don’t be ready and are always looking for how to cut corners. Always wanting to eat their cake and have it but “YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL”. A lot of things can always go wrong with open marriages.
We can start from “better sex” to comparing them with your partner and then you start sneaking out to get some. To getting someone pregnant and set Awon DNA test people, Voila. Oh, what about communicating family values and unity to your growing children? Same set of people 20 years down the line will talk about how society has lost it’s values but y’all be leaving your contribution to the dilapidated society out of it. Someone spell “hypocrisy” with a capital H cause I think I’m getting it all wrong.
The way this generation makes excuse for emotional indiscipline sometimes is beyond me. Talmbout it’s not easy, sex with one person for the rest of your life… Well excuse me, you work your butt everyday to build streams of income, build your brand, be successful and no matter how much you can diplomatically say you’re living for others, the credit always come to you. So why do all these things to stay on top of your game, social circle and influence in life?
Stop letting indiscipline blind and deceive you. As success is hard work to attain, same goes for emotional maturity. Nothing good comes easy. It’s fine if that’s how you want to live your life. Just don’t complain when the consequences start playing out and please don’t let anyone manipulate you to settling for a life you’re not comfortable with because in the long run, it’ll leave you emotionally frustrated and bitter. Your type is out there.